Posted by ucla_alum on December 04, 2002 at 19:56:10:
In Reply to: Re: The true test of Masculinity posted by pat on November 21, 2002 at 12:43:18:
: Truly I did not pawn off this problem to them. They offered to pay the mortgage until the case was settled and in my divorce papers it is stated that they get back there money after the case settles. This was put in by there request. I would pay them my self but truly I am not rich, I’m not driving a new Ferrari or living in a lavish home. I just have a modest place with a cheep car to get around. I’m not looking to screw anyone over it is just a bad thing that has happened in my life and I’m up agents a big company and my ex and I are the little guy in this case. If we were to win the case they would get all there money back, I have no problem with this. I want to win and pay off my debts. The problem is that the law suit is that they buy back the condo and pay damages. After all this time dragging on in court the amount has considerably gone up. Now they just want to fix the place and I sell it. That’s all fine and dandy, but that will not give me all the money that I lost to pay them back. I’m not looking to profit from this suit I just want what is right and that is to pay every one off. But if the suit goes there way and they get to fix the condo I will never have close to what I owe them and they want it all back. Yes if I were in there position I would feel the same but also knowing that there was no promise of an out come I would at least take what was left over. And not sue my own kid to get it all back. Also I did not piss over there daughter our divorce was mutual. So it is not like I just walked away from all this. I am still involved and want to get what is owed back from this law suit. My question was that if it all falls apart and we get nothing what can my ex and I do but let the property go. And I don’t want to see it completely ruin either of us. She still has my son who I still take care of and love very much. I do not want to have this ruin the rest of our lives just because we decided 6 years ago to purchase this place. Also if this was a major concern the ex-in laws would have stopped paying right when we got divorced, but they said they would see it through. So that is the only reason I said they were pissed at me because they just now a year later, after I move on they want to stop paying. Knowing, that neither my ex nor I can afford it.
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: : Frankly, you should be embarrassed to have off-loaded this problem onto your in-laws.
: : Your in-laws are not pissed because you are doing well...Your in-laws are pissed because of your continued disrespect. In their eyes, you've pissed over their daughter, took advantage of them...and have left them with a major clean up effort.
: : Get over yourself, Pat, and do the right thing. List the property for sell and make arrangements to pay your in-laws for your half of the burden that they've been far too generous in carrying.
: : And stop the whinning. You're not the victim.
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